After going through this journey of grief 3 times ( 3 children ), I am coming to realize that first and foremost, they are with our Heavenly Father, in THE most beautiful place ever. Do we miss them?......ABSOLUTELY ! .....but please keep in mind one of the most important things,......that we WILL be with our children again one day, WITHOUT A DOUBT,........and the next time we are with them,..we will NEVER be away from them again,..EVER. Not even the power of death will be able to separate us. This is just a temporary separation,.....very brief. Compare a grain of salt to a salt mine.........thats how our time here on earth is compared to an eternity with our children. I choose not to just grieve for, and about their death, ( their lives meant ALOT more than that),......BUT I WANT TO CELEBRATE THEIR LIVES EVEN MORE.